Dating Again? Tips from a Man
This beautiful, heartfelt piece of advice brimmeth over with wisdom and sincerity. It isn’t one of those shallow how-to articles. I strongly recommend it. The author of this marvellous piece of writing is an Indian man named Akhil Sharma whose recent book, Family Life received accolades. It has been described as ‘deeply unnerving and gorgeously tender at it’s core.’
The Seven things that Akhil wrote about are
- Say something nice about someone people expect you to speak ill of
- Ask a boring question
- Talk about work
- Grab the man’s hand and pull him somewhere
- Try to have at least some dates during the day time
- Volunteer together
- Ask him to cook something for you.
Read the blog post to understand why doing any of those things brings you closer to the man you are dating. Becoming closer and talking about real things moves the relationship forward, if it’s meant to. If not, you find out early on how different you are from each other.
” Love requires care. It requires an eagerness to find the romance in the humdrum. ”
The last three suggestions are the most practical and arguably something that a couple newly dating may not think of doing. They make a lot of sense.
Do you have any ideas?