Divorce is such a serious issue. People are so depressed about it, so aware of the consequences on lives, families, children – its huge. At first there are very intense feelings although I must tell you I’m way past that. What follows this stage is ‘being careful’. Being careful that your children don’t feel hurt, that your ex doesn’t feel hurt, that the new partner doesn’t feel hurt. And so on… But, there comes a time when you just want to laugh about it and not make such a big deal out of it. Simply cut the drama out of it by doing something dramatic to mark the occasion…
Sometimes the best way to deal with these enormous life changes is by having a sense of humor about it. Celebrate things. Why, even after a funeral people eat and drink and try to get back to normal. The same needs to be done with divorce.
So, if you’re getting a divorce you may like to celebrate with one of these cakes the day you come home with that very valuable piece of paper. ENJOY